Whether she is from the east or the west, black skinned or white. She wears make up or no makeup – the core of her being, her character and her choices are hers.
She may smoke, she may drink, but that doesn’t decide the level of her morality. The time of her work doesn’t decide the strength of her character. The places she visits doesn’t stain her purity.
If you are seeing the world as green or red or blue, that is because of the coloured stain on your glasses and not because it actually is.
Being friendly is not an invite for physical moves, having a smile on her face is not an act of seduction, having a drink is not giving you a clean chit to own her possession. She is an independent, strong, self reliant woman and if you cannot respect her courage then you do not have to go to the other extreme of judging her morality.
Let her be, just let her be! Let her live peacefully. She is not asking you to come shielded up with armours to protect her.
Whether she loses her virginity or no is her choice. Whether she loves someone or no is her choice. Whether she lives alone or with her parents is her choice. Whether she wears skirts or pants is her choice.
It is her choice!
If she tells you a no – it means a NO. There is no hidden meaning in it. It doesn’t mean that you have to try harder. It doesn’t mean that she is indirectly giving you a pass. It is a NO and it just means NO.
Just learn to accept her and respect her, she is a wonderful breed to be with. Love, peace and harmony…just let her be!
HER NO means a NO….just like HIS NO means a NO!